Oh cock.

[hellzabeth]

So I came home from work and forgot to refresh the concealer on my hickies before going downstairs to make lunch.

Mum noticed.

Mum guessed.

She's not talking to me.

I'm not sure what word accurately describes what I'm feeling right now.

"Boned" will suffice.

Comments

[meg-inatree.livejournal.com]

...You're 18, I understand that she can be worried but fuck. You're going to have to live your life sooner or later, right?

/hugs

[hellzabeth.livejournal.com]

/sigh

It's less the hickies and more the fact they were from another girl that she's upset about, I think.

:/

[meg-inatree.livejournal.com]

Ahhhh.

Well. Fuck.

....*cuddles* I'm afraid I'm useless for advice for this, my coming out wasn't really awkward. Poor dear.

[hellzabeth.livejournal.com]

It's fine, *snuggles* It's just me venting. My mum's just extremely conservative and christian. That said, my dad didn't take it nearly as hard.*

[meg-inatree.livejournal.com]

Is cool. I thought I'd hit the same snag with dad, him with his 'adam and eve, not adam and steve' crap etc, but he apparently knew for ages, thanks to mum and said it was fine. Mum I knew would be fine, her sister's gay.

Still. Sigh, *hughughug* Is she gets upset um, say according to the bible, shellfish are an abomination and getting your haircut is also a sin?

[taudrey.livejournal.com]

Aww. Sure she's upset now, but I'm sure she'll come around. Not the most tactful way to come out, but at least she's not taking it as hard as my homophobic dad to take it. >.>

[hellzabeth.livejournal.com]

I hadn't intended to come out about it at all before I moved out and therefore didn't have to deal with the shitstorm.

[taudrey.livejournal.com]

Well, at least you got the hard part out of the way. If she hasn't kicked you out/disowned you yet, I'm sure she'll come around. Hang in there, Pidge. *hugs*

[katamanda.livejournal.com]

Here's hoping she comes around. I know what it's like... my mum knows and is cool but my dad is scary into his Christian stuff and jfhuis I've long moved out and still don't know if I'll ever dare tell him.

So just hang in there and you'll be okay *hugs* She's your mum, she'll love you regardless.

[antonio.livejournal.com]

ffffffffuuuu--

hopefully she'll come around ):

[madnesshp.livejournal.com]

*hug*

[tuulensisko.livejournal.com]

D: Oh man. I hope she'll get over it soon. Idek, have her read some articles about homosexuality for Christians? Like this: http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible-gay-christian or this: http://www.gaychurch.org/ -- Or possibly general sites for parents like these: http://www.bidstrup.com/parents.htm http://www.helium.com/items/21038-learning-to-accept-a-gay-child

Or maybe these personal accounts:
http://www.leaderu.com/stonewall/pages/kathleen.html
http://www.opposingviews.com/i/a-christian-mother-s-struggle-to-accept-her-gay-daughter
(The first one is more like "well, I still love her even if I don't accept it" while the second one sounded genuinely accepting. Idk, it was really hard to find these, tbh. orz)

... Idk, my first impulse seems to be to load you with links. ^^;; But really, I just hope it'll be alright... *hugs*
I'm lucky to have such accepting parents that they didn't really mind at all. I just feel SO angry when I hear about parents who aren't as accepting.

It's late/early, I can't type.

[lovelylurker.livejournal.com]

... this might beat the thing I just read about someone accidentally sending Hetalia porn to their teacher by e-mail instead of their homework assignment.

Oh Pidge, I'm sorry. I don't know what to say other than I sincerely hope that it all smooths out and she doesn't throw a hissy fit for the wrong reasons (or one at all, really...). /hugs you close

Am late but...

[ellethill.livejournal.com]

...am still hugging you tight, tight, tight.

[alianorethecat.livejournal.com]

I'm super late here >.<

But lots of hugs for you! I hope everything turns out okay